Fucking best idea I ever made. My family is abusive and I’m the family scapegoat. They’re really anti gay so I’ve had to hide that part of myself. Not being constantly controlled and criticised has made my life dramatically better, plus nobody has called me an anti gay slur in years.

There’s times I miss my dad, so I hop in !dadforaminute@lemmy.world and get some substitute dad advice or hugs. Works like a charm!