Match!!

i havent ever thought about ada before this thread and can’t evaluate whether she has uneaned trust. it seems like Blahaj is a cool place though (but again, my instance is not federated with a number of other common instances) and ada is the co-admin so i feel like i should have a reasonable amount of trust even if she may have failed in this, imo extremely nuanced, instance

what i said is reasonable given, again, the limited context of what i know

my read of the situation is that there is some unstated person who, even though they are not literally named “obvious_troll”, is similarly enough named that ada thought you were making an indirect attack on that person. again, i don’t have the context to know who that would be but i am willing to believe you’re all arguing at odds with each other.

(it is like if someone made a shitpost where the butt of the joke was MindGobbler@lemmy.ca)

that post seems okay to me? just badly phrased with an unnecessary level of twists that impede understanding

they are argumentative for sure, but they are arguing in good faith (and their opinion is bad or badly stated)

i have them usernoted as “is correct but unpopular”, they are abrasive but usually also earnest and not a troll